Showing posts with label Writing. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Writing. Show all posts

Tuesday, January 3, 2012

When you write from the heart...

I attended this workshop on advanced content management some 4 months back - I mean this is not about that workshop or its contents - nothing to take away from the workshop - it was 2 days, well spent. The trainer there said that the mind works like "water flowing thro' a newly installed tap"...it is air first, then murky, gutter water and only after that the pristine, cool elixir follows! Wow! what a truly wonderful analogy.

Someone who'd read my blogs said my writing was so like "I was getting back at someone", as if its like I was venting out. It really bothered me, because yeah! I confess, I do write (sometimes) to get things out of my frame. But arent strokes the only form of expression, where you can not care, I mean, really give a damn about what others will think... I know Rushdie and Taslima would beg to differ! But really what sort of democracy bans instruments of liberal arts like paintings, books and movies! If Brit Colonialism followed "Divide and Rule", modern politics follows, "Deny and Rule" - depriving people of any chance to make their own rules and their own interpretations...

Sorry Rushdie and Nasreen, I need to get back to my blog here - so the point I was trying to get at is  - Why do people write? Well I know it figures in most people's "100 things to do before I die", but really why do people write - from the very limited I read,  I can tell you this - Some people write about secret things they always wanted to do/see happen, whilst others about the things they want to shout from roof tops, some because their life's journey was too colourful or because it was too black and white, why some write because they hate too much  and some others because they love too much, some write because they know so much and others because they are still searching, some write because that's all they know while others write because there's so much to write about......... However everyone writes because they want to give a piece of themselves to the world, because they feel they owe you one! So what if its air at first and then some more gutter..... If the writer and the world can wait, the cool pristine elixir will follow.

Tuesday, April 12, 2011

What do people really mean when they say "Dont have too many expectations?"

Well as far as I remember it...I have never said it... I mean its not my natural thing to say that! But I know of a lot many people who say "Well dont expect too much" and say it way too often - even sometimes out of context... C'mon its the human nature to expect or atleast be curious of what the outcome will be for his actions/someone else's actions. And if you are an optimistic person, you are bound to have expectations. I mean what kind of person says, "well yeah I have done my bit, but I really dont expect much."

Even the most sage-like people I know have great dreams, great ambitions - they are brimming with boundless zeal and energy and am sure "Dont expect too much" is not their driving force.

So what's wrong with expecting the best, nothing but the best and fighting against mediocrity? People who expect are also people who can give, who can go that extra mile.. because they are conscious that they have expectations to live upto as well.  It doesnt scare them to try - well they'd die if they dont, because expectations keep them going, not so much the others' as much as theirs! And a person who doesnt set expectations for himself is living a lie... God save him..his life is a pity!

So next time, I am not going to let people look me down by saying "Dont expect too much"...I will just look back squarely and say - "I'm really sorry for you".